Please Stand By for a Demonstration of Relevancy

You know, I like having my little blog over here in the corner nobody pays any attention to a little better now.

At least I don’t get badly-written idiot pitches by idiots who really should not be working in PR. My fellow Texan Jenny Lawson over at The Bloggess has gotten enough pitches from PR firms with random celebrities doing utterly innocuous things that she has a whole page dedicated to telling those PR firms that they’re idiots in a gently snarky way.

So this woman who writes about marriage, being a bit crazy in a massively crazy world, and general fun gets a pitch about Kim Kardashian wearing pantyhose? Yeeeeah, somebody failed to do their research—as has been pointed out.

In a typically hilarious post, Jenny recounts the original pitch and the ensuing debacle that results from a Vice President (of idiocy, obviously) at the firm hitting “reply all” on an email in which he calls her a “fucking bitch” and proceeds in a non-apology to inform her that she “should be flattered that you are even viewed relevant enough to be pitched at all.”

Jenny proceeded to tell him “Please stand by for a demonstration of relevancy” and tweeted about it. And then it was on like Donkey Kong. Because that picture of Wil Wheaton collating papers I linked earlier? He actually sent that to her because he’s a fan. Jenny’s 165K+ Twitter followers started pulling out their torches and pitchforks, then Wil tweeted about it, and his 2 MILLION+ followers started in. Neil Gaiman weighed in, too. With his well over 1.6 million followers.

They’ve been bombarded on their twitter accounts (both the firm and the individual VP, whose Twitter account no longer exists) and their Facebook page with irate fans of the massively beloved Bloggess. Many a PR person has weighed in as well, both on her blog and on Wil’s.

Yeah, I do believe I’ll just stay over here in my obscure little corner with my Schadenfreude.

Speak Out with Your Geek Out

I am a geek. I am very much a geek.

I am a word geek. I love knowing where words came from and the journey they took to make it into our modern language. I love using them correctly and I love hearing and reading them used correctly. I get excited over a beautiful new dictionary. I own a Strunk & White style guide and a Gregg reference manual.

I am a book geek, otherwise known as a bibliophile. I love turning pages, seeing a story unfold in my mind, seeing the wonderful ways imaginations work. I have been known, on occasion, to pull out my book at a stop light. When I’m driving. I have boxes and boxes and stacks and piles of books. I go back and read books again and again.

I’m a bit of a computer geek. I can and have upgraded components on my computers, including, most recently, a power supply. I’m kind of proud of myself for that one. Now I haven’t put together my own computer, mainly because there are just some really good ones out there that are already done for me. I know what to look for in components. I’m not really enough of a computer geek to work in a shop, but I can hold my own. I characterize myself as an intermediate to advanced user, but all on the front end of things. The backstage stuff can still confuse me.

I’m an online geek. I have my own website, regardless of how often I actually update it… (oops!) I have a Facebook page, though I don’t bother with it very much either. I have a Twitter account that I’m fairly addicted to, though I’m a bit of a lurker. I have a Google + profile, though I really haven’t done a whole lot with it. There is very very rarely a day that I’m not online, and usually I am online for multiple hours.

I’m a gaming geek. I play Dungeons & Dragons whenever I can get a group together. I played Everquest and still know my password to get back into it. I play World of Warcraft, sometimes until 3 in the morning, even on a morning I have class. I regularly play old World of Darkness in a chat room, and have looked into the new World of Darkness.

I am a gadget geek. I have a GPS, a BlackBerry, a laptop, a desktop, and an internet-connected TV with integrated Blu-Ray player. I want a tablet but can’t justify the expense. I’m the one who programs the clocks on the microwave and stove, who programs the alarm system, who sets the DVR to record a show…

I. Am. A. Geek.

Attitudes

I read this comment on a YouTube video talking about austerity. The video is actually irrelevant, but the comment really struck me.

“The obvious solution is to stop being poor. Go get a job and make some money. Live below your means so you can save up and become rich! And get an education so you can be successful.

That’s what America was founded on, and the option has always been there…for those ambitious enough to try. For the others, suckling on the government teat has become so ingrained in their life that they’ve given up trying. Why reward them for their laziness and ineptitude? Grow up, don’t punish success.”

That seems to be the entire attitude behind the tea partiers, and to varying extents, at least most of the Republican party.

There are many problems with this. The first and biggest one is that it’s no simple thing for anyone to simply “stop being poor” and it’s absolutely not as simple as getting a job and making some money. To get anything but the barest minimum wage job, you have to have education. You have to have some education to even get the barest minimum wage jobs. Yet who has the least education and the least means to get any? The poor. And living below means? When living “above” those means entails actually eating more than once or twice per week, having a roof over your head (even a rat- and roach-infested one…) and having clothes on your back and transportation to that lovely job that barely pays you enough to get that much? And often working two or three of those jobs if you happen to be supporting or helping to support more than just yourself? When does that leave any time for anything but sleep, and less sleep than is needed at that? Where’s the time, much less the money, for any kind of education?

“Go get a job and make some money. Live below your means so you can save up and become rich! And get an education so you can be successful.” sounds so simple, doesn’t it. You try being just the latest in a string of generations that don’t even have the hope of getting more than the basics, if even all of those.

The problem is the attitude that says this lack of education, lack of opportunity, lack of so much as a glimmer of hope, is seen as “laziness and ineptitude.” Because “I made it” or “my ancestor(s) made it” or “so-and-so made it and they were the worst off of the worst!” and the exceptions become the rule. Not so. They are decidedly the exceptions. If you say “I made it” you’re probably one of the people that started out with college-educated parents, a house where you shared your room with a maximum of two siblings (instead of your whole family, parents included), and schools where if you tried at all, you got at least a half-way decent education. You may have even been bullied at school. Try being bullied, or even threatened with you or one of your family being shot for you even going to school.

The problem is that some of those who have (and most of those who have the most) are trying so damned hard to keep what they feel they’ve “earned” that they aren’t willing to let those who have the least have even a tiny bit more, then call the lack “laziness and ineptitude” and punish failure by crying that having the government do anything, said government is “punishing success.”

Now, if you’ve read any entries here at all, it’s pretty clear that I’m definitely not one of the poor. I have college-educated parents, a pretty decent over-all education, including a year of college myself, and generally most of the advantages that come with being fairly firmly middle class, including a mortgage now. I’m just not blind to the fact that those are advantages. Even the mortgage! Because my husband and I can pay it without both of us working three jobs each, and it means we have our own home.

You know what? I’m happy to be taxed. It means I’m helping my government run and to help out those who need the help in ways far more effective than what I can do. Yes, I also give to charities that are more effective than anything I can do on my own. I have the advantage of being able to. I also have the advantage of enough compassion to realize that doesn’t give me the right to call those who are the recipients of government programs and charities “lazy and inept.”

Community

It’s amazing how much of my news I get from Twitter. Part of that is due to the fact that even if news doesn’t actually break on Twitter, it gets there fast and spreads like wildfire. Part of it is the fact that I don’t have cable TV (Thanks, Time Warner, so much…) right now and thus don’t watch TV news, not that I do all that consistently even when I do have it available.

Another part of it is that I don’t have a news aggregating site I go to every day. The HusBrat reads headlines on Yahoo!’s front page, I could probably go to Google’s news page or have iGoogle be my starting page or something, but my habits are simply different. So I get my news from Twitter. If I feel like finding something out in more depth, Google News is always right there, as is The Killeen Daily Herald website and the website for my local CBS affliate, KWTX, whose news is the one I watch when I do at all.

But The Bloggess wrote a great post about how the internet is her community and how we’re all tied together. Twitter, for me, is a combination of the neighborhood gossip, the big bulletin board seen at some of the housing areas on post, and the big-screen TV scrolling the headlines. All this makes it a huge part of my particular community, or at least how I interact with it.

Another little bit of news today… there’s a rather awesome marriage epidemic going on in NYC today. Congratulations to all the newlyweds! May your lives be filled with the little joys that keep you going.

My bookshelf

I’m thinking that instead of putting a widget at the side that I have to update, I’ll just post every once in a while about what I’m reading, what’s in the pile to read next, and what’s coming out in the next weeks or months that I can’t wait to get my greedy little hands on.

Without further ado, I shall simply cut and paste the contents of the widget I’ve had up since I started using WordPress, and delete that widget.

What I’m Reading

Deep Fire Rising by Jack Du Brul
Next is Havoc by the same author.

Toward the top of the “to be read” pile(In no particular order)
Night Veil by Yasmine Galenorn
ArchEnemy by Frank Beddor
First Lord’s Fury by Jim Butcher
The Snow Queen’s Shadow by Jim C. Hines
Unnatural Issue by Mercedes Lackey
The Creed Legacy by Linda Lael Miller

I’m Eagerly Anticipating

Ghost Story (Dresden Files #13) by Jim Butcher, due out 7/26
Blood Hunt (Sentinel Wars #5) by Shannon K. Butcher, due out 8/2
Changes (Collegium Chronicles [Valdemar] #3) by Mercedes Lackey, due out 10/28
Razor’s Edge (Edge series #2) by Shannon K. Butcher, due out 11/1
Sample 681 by Jack Du Brul, due out TBA (listed on Wikipedia, so grain of salt)

All links are for the Barnes & Noble pages for the respective books.

A look back and addition

I looked back at previous entries and noticed the one on Houses. We actually bought out of our lease as part of buying a house. I got every single thing in my deal-breakers list, and all but the fireplace and wet bar on the “I’d Like” list. Basically. In exchange for a separate/extra family room or den, I got my own study. We have a huge dining room table that’s great for gaming.

Of course, we closed on Friday, June 3 and moved a few things in that very night. By the following Monday, we had our table and refrigerator. We were pretty bad about moving the rest of the stuff, though. It wasn’t until the the 23-25th I (because by that time, John was out of town) got the rest of the stuff (including the furbutts) to the new house and the old apartment cleaned.

Continuing the trend, even though everything got moved on the 23rd and 24th, I still haven’t unpacked most of it, so the living room is still full of boxes.

I, however, am not the only one to be behind the curve on things. Time Warner Cable, the only cable option in town, doesn’t have the infrastructure in the part of the new subdivision our house is in. The really lovely part is that it’s in place everywhere surrounding us… next street over, around the corner, etc. but not on this little hundred-yard-or-so cul de sac. That’s probably my hugest beef with the whole thing right now. Both John and I are reduced to using air cards on single computers at a time and we have no cable TV, no wireless network, and no phone service other than our cells. I’m still trying to get them to get out here and put the stuff in place before more houses are built and they have yet more to work around (e.g. drilling driveways). But maybe if there begins to be more people here (hopefully also complaining), they’ll actually do something about it.

All new?

I didn’t do a whole heck of a lot with the front end of this site for a long time, letting things just… go.

I updated a lot of things, changed a few around, and generally made the whole thing cleaner-looking. At least I think so.

I also am going to stop limiting just what kind of blog posts I put on here. I’ve been limiting this to posts that have a bit of meaning. Now, I think, I’m going to loosen up a bit and just put mostly anything. Stuff that’s a bit long for Twitter will probably be the main gist. Maybe stuff that I might’ve put on LiveJournal back when I used it.